Layout: Tuesday, August 28, 2007
army bf
her blog often has many juicy info de.. abt her relationship of cauz..
and that's where i will noe the reason to her bad mood.. ;)
my sis has 2 blogs.. one is her personal one.. which she actualli protected it with a password..
to prevent me from looking at it of cauz..
the other one which i am readin now has 2 writers.. my sis and her bf
from the topic i suppose u can tell what i'll be gossiping abt ba..
my frenz and my sis have their bfs serving the army..
and sad to say.. there are alwaz quarrels and misunderstandings.. and some eventually broke off..
i nv had a relationship where my bf is serving the army.. tt's y i nv noe how they felt..
but their blogs all have a similar pattern..
In camps... bf...
- falls asleep while chit chatting..
- never replies sms/ calls
- toks abt army stuff
- questions too much abt what gf is doing
- gives gf too little trust
Book out... bf...
- dun wish to go shopping, just wants to slp
- tok more abt army stuff
- looks at other girls and tells gf.. i long time nv see gals le !!!
maybe there's more.. too much to be listed down..
but.. this is so silly..
aren't they suppose to like miss each other more and look forward to each meetings?
COMPLICATED!
If i were them... i might also encouter the same problems..
but i guess it takes 2 to clap..
my advice: compromise
easier said than done but it's sth to learn abt..
and will only works if both parties put in effort..
Compromise, if not the spice of life, is its solidity. It is what makes nations great and marriages happy. Phyllis McGinley (1905 - 1978)
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her sweet memory was written @ 10:13 AM